Good Friends
This past weekend I started thinking about my friends, the qualities that make up each friendship, and how much I really value the friendships. A couple of happenings really got me thinking about the topic. The first was the highschool group at my church (LIFE). This month we are doing a series on friendships. We are covering things such as, The qualities of a good friendship, what to do when friendships go bad, how to develop good friendships, how to witness to your friends and others as well.
Another thing that added to my thoughts on the topic was hanging out with my buddy Mark. He was considering taking a job in another city. It made me think of the benefits for him but also the disadvantages of relocating. The job was one that I think would have suited him well. However, yesterday he called me to tell me he is not going to pursue the job anymore. He decided that he would stay in town because of the relationships and community he already had here. I agree with his decision. I think his reason for staying is a valid one. Especially after time in prayer and giving the decision to God. I am glad he’s staying.
I’m not really good at keeping in touch. Especially over long distances. But lately as I get older (not really old), I realize more and more the need for good friends. I realize that developing a community of good friends is not easy. It takes work to develop good friendships. I’m sure I’ll have more on this subject some other time, but for now, thats all I have to say.
